There is one thing that I’m certain of: there’s no “one size fits all” when it comes to intimacy and pleasure. Contrary to popular belief (and what the media tells us), stimulating the penis, clitoris, or vagina is not the only way to achieve an orgasm. There are many ways to make your nipples more erogenous, regardless of your gender. It’s become an essential part of my sexual experience, and I wish I had learned more about it earlier. Here’s a quick guide to nipple play, including how to decide if it is right for you and how to start experimenting.
What is nipple play?
You may be thinking, “Of Course, I understand what nippleplay is,” and I was too. There are many techniques and ways to increase pleasure, such as direct or indirect stimulation. It’s best to start from the beginning. Nipple play involves the inspiration of the nipple for sexual pleasure. The nipples contain hundreds of nerve ends that, when stimulated, activate the Genital Sensory Cortex, the same part of the mind that is aroused by clitoral stimuli. Nipple play can be used to facilitate clitoral stimulation, enhance penetration, or as a pre-game. It can also be the main event. Theoretically, nipple play can produce an orgasm. However, because intimacy, sexual pleasure, and sexual satisfaction are all individual, there is no set of rules that everyone should follow.
What to do if you are not sure if nipple play is for you
You may need to experiment for a while before you find the right touch. Alyssa A. Dweck, MD, is a gynecologist from Westchester, New York. She says that nipple sensitivities can be influenced by genetics or breast surgery, as well as other procedures performed on the upper part of the body. It’s a situation that must be considered individually. It’s important to check in and listen to your body when you begin nipple playing. Focus on the pleasure that you feel instead of trying to orgasm.
I recommend that you explore sensations on your own to discover what you enjoy. Masturbation can be a useful tool to help you understand your desires and communicate them with your partner. It would be best if you had an honest discussion with your SO about your wants and limits. When it comes to experimenting, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open. It may also be worthwhile to set up a safe signal or word in case the stimulation becomes too intense. Nipple play is a great way to add a new dimension to your sexual repertoire. But it all comes down to trial and error and doing what you feel comfortable with.
What to expect when you try nipple play
Start with your fingers
Start by using slow circular motions around the nipple area and areola. After you’ve determined your body’s reaction to subtle stimulations, experiment with different pressures, pinches, and durations. There is no right or wrong answer. You can also try pulling or twisting your nipples until you find a stimulation that suits you. Use lubricant before you do any intense rolling, pinching, or rubbing of the nipples. This will prevent dry friction and unwanted chafing. I recommend using a CBD-based product to increase blood circulation to the area. This will make even the gentlest of sensations feel swoon-worthy.
Move to the Mouth
There are many ways to play nipple with your partner. You can have your partner breathe hot air on and around your nipple to warm the nerve endings. Then, they can lick, bite, or sucking. Your partner can increase your sensitivity by sucking your nipples. This will increase the blood flow in the area. Try different techniques until you find the one that feels right for you both. Choose a flavored lubricant to increase pleasure.
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You can add extra sensations to your nipple game by using lotions, vibrators, or ties. You can create a nipple tease and erection instantly by using oils or ice. Nipple vibrations are another great option. They can be used hands-free and allow hands to move around other erogenous areas of the body. Clamps can be worn either loosely for a subtler effect or tighter for a more kinkier nipple experience. If you don’t own any nipple toys, household items like hot wax, lotion, or paintbrushes can be substituted.
